Soul Relationship...you know it's love when.......

Some people will have different thoughts on love and falling in love but I’m quite sure that one can find a lot of glaring commonalities such as these tell-tale signs. I researched, read some magazines and summarized it.

1. You think about how it  must be like to spend the rest of your life with your partner and no, you don’t look at it as simply being stuck with just one person, but rather, as a wonderful idea that you can’t wait to explore together.

2.  Even when surrounded by attractive people, your thoughts are always with your partner and how much premium you put on his happiness which you will not knowingly or deliberately crush by being thoughtless and unfaithful. That shows both commitment and devotion.

3. Passion and fireworks remain even after the “honeymoon” stage has passed. They say that at this day and age, sustaining a relationship has become such as arduous task that only a few manage to keep it together.  If, after the initial jolt of excitement has waned yet you still find reasons  to want to be with your partner everyday, then you are definitely on the something real……and lasting.

4. You make a lot of room in your life for your partner and that includes both his strong and weak points, as well as his peculiarities. There is also the desire to understand and compromise, both every clear indications of selfishness which will prove to be very valuable in the long run especially when challenges start to crop up.   

         

          It is really inspiring to write an article about love, relationships, dating and meeting soul mates. I read lots of action, suspense, love and romance pocketbooks and novels.  Falling in love is such a wonderful feeling. But once someone broke your heart it triples the pain. As the old cliché goes, you don’t know the feeling to be loved if you never try to love someone.

      I wrote this article not only for myself but also to all viewers and readers of this blog.

The last time I read a pocketbook, these are the sentences that caught my curiosity: ”Sex should never be the reason to be with someone.  Love should always be the reason why you are with someone. Great sex should always be just a bonus.”

Moreover, “It’s not you, it’s me”, actually, it is “You and Me”.  A relationship is about two people. So whether it’s a smooth-sailing or a nerve-wracking one, a relationship’s progress and decline depends on both partners. While others claim that going from “You and I” to a constant “We” is healthy and understandable, couples still need to give each other time to grow.

Here are few tips on how to smoothen the edges and enjoy a healthy and lasting relationship with your partner.

1. Voice out your needs

2. Complement each other

3. Be passionate

4. Forgive and move on

5. Grow together by spending times apart

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