Love and Relationship

Loving someone doesn’t need any reason. It doesn’t matter the age gap. It doesn’t matter the distance. Doesn’t matter how she or he looks. Doesn’t matter the way she or he moves or speaks.  What matter is, how you love each other, how do you need each other and how happy you are when you are together. That’s love…..NO REASON, NO DEFINITION, and definitely NO END.

But, is it really instant LOVE, when you meet someone else only on Internet? During 80’s and early 90’s, sending love letter is the ultimate medium to show someone’s affection towards opposite sex. Love letters with kisses and flowers waiting on your desk or sometimes chocolates with greeting cards.

Searching for someone and committing your self, is not a game. You invest time, effort and emotions just to make the relationship successful.

There are no perfect relationships. It’s up to both parties, how they handle and manage it nearly to perfection.

I am fond of reading someone’s love story. I like watching romance, action and tragic movies which involved relationship and family.

Sometimes, I want to portray a character on a certain movie, to know how it really feels when you are in such situation being seen on that big screen.

I want to share this article out of curiosity.  I met a foreign guy only in the Internet. We became friends up to now. Though, we haven’t met face to face personally, still the friendship is there. This guy met a Filipina young girl on a Dating Facebook page. They had only short period relationship with this girl. My friend really loves the girl so much. He has even plan in visiting Philippines someday. But all his dreams and plans unfulfilled for just one mistake of this Filipina girl.

Everyone doesn’t want to wait forever. We want assurances and faithfulness despite how million miles apart with each other.

Long distance, third party, infidelity, lies, temptations, and broken promises are sometimes or usually the main causes of failed relationship.  And one of those is the main reason of their break-up.

Indulging yourself to play on fire is a no-no to a relationship. With all the innovations nowadays, our main focus to re-establish a damaged or ruined relationship being diverted in meeting opposite sex through Cyber-cam. 

Relationship is like a crystal. Handle it with care. Once it is broken, no matter how eagerness you want to put it back all the broken pieces, marks are still visible

When your heart fills with anger and  betrayal, trust and love fades.

A successful relationship is accepting the indifference, open-minded partners, level of maturity, nourish the relationship everyday, trust and love each other.

 

I want to end this short article of mine, a quote sent by my close friend.

“Never play on someone who showed you what love means. Because, only when it’s too late that you’ll realize……you’ve lost something you would never ever have again.”