My Points of View: July 2015

Thursday, July 23, 2015

My Points of View: The Art of Being a Single Woman

My Points of View: The Art of Being a Single Woman: It's been eight long years, since my first relationship ended. I've been enjoying my life as a single woman focusing on my caree...

The Art of Being a Single Woman

It's been eight long years, since my first relationship ended.

I've been enjoying my life as a single woman focusing on my career, parents, loved-ones, friends, self-identity and especially waiting for God's signal to meet a right guy.

I tried joining dating websites with the influence of my friends who found their loving husband and fiance' through online dating. But I failed to find a good man.

I'm scared to commit mistake again and the fear to easily fall in love.

Sometimes, I feel frustrated but then when I just close my eyes whisper the name of the Lord and believe in His words, I feel at ease.

I am not a perfect woman, I have my flaws and downfall.

From my past, I have learned a lesson and it made me stronger.

myself and my tripod

Being single at the age of 33, doesn't mean that I don't want to settle down someday.

As a single at this moment, it gives me more time to explore things, to enjoy every opportunity, and widening my horizon by mingling to other people, accepting their cultures and the likes.

There are so many advantages being a single. I love my life and it gives me more strength and inspiration to dream big and plan goals for the future.

As I end my article, "I will meet the right guy destined to be my lifetime partner. A good man that God has chosen."

Friday, July 3, 2015

My Points of View: Love Unconditionally

My Points of View: Love Unconditionally: In some articles I wrote regarding “Love & Relationship”, I included blogs and reviews from other writers. These blogs help me a...

Love Unconditionally

In some articles I wrote regarding “Love & Relationship”, I included blogs and reviews from other writers.

These blogs help me a lot in terms of information, an awakening into reality, and serve as a driving force for me to write.
I am so grateful to all my guests featured in every article I published, for giving me permission to include their magical moments in Maldives.

Here is an introduction I quoted from Author Barrie Davenport

“Lasting relationships require unconditional love.

Unconditional love in a relationship begins with oneself. To set the foundation for a lasting, healthy relationship, you must first have a strong sense of self-esteem and self-confidence. It also means you can stand on your own two feet as an individual without requiring a romantic partner to define you or complete you. You can be together with someone and still remain fully yourself — as a person you like and respect.”

“Offering unconditional love to yourself means you are able to view yourself as lovable and worthy — in spite of any perceived flaws or past mistakes.

Newly wed couple from Republic of China

Within the relationship itself, you are able to love the other person as they are in their essence. If you have fallen in love with this person and want to build a lasting relationship with them, then you must view them as a unique individual not as an extension of yourself.”

“They may be different from you in many ways. They may view the world differently and have habits that you don’t share, but you can embrace these differences because they are part of this unique person you love.”

“You begin with the essentials of self-love, mutual love and respect. You see and embrace the core of the other, their innate personality and worldview. You acknowledge the influences of their upbringing, life experiences, and ingrained behaviors.”